If there is one thing I am absolutely sure about myself it’s that I have too much pride when it comes to dating. Most people argue that we should fight for what we want but my take is that I don’t have to convince anyone that I am the right girl for them. What you see is what you get and I make it a point that they see all that they need to get to know who I am and decide for themselves if I am the right person for them. I definitely only do this with men I fantasy potential with.
So far, I have invested myself with 3 men in my twenties and to this day, I’m still single. So therefore, they weren’t or aren’t that into me so I need to take it easy. Not take it too seriously and keep focusing on my success. I know that the right man will come along and will not require such puzzling thought process.
For now, I am deeply involved with someone who lives thousands of miles away. I’ve known him for over a year and our relationship has progressively gotten stronger but yet we are not officially committed to each other. He seems to be afraid of many unknowns – afraid that long distance is not going to work or afraid that we are not going to last long if we lived together. In conclusion, he doesn’t like me enough to overcome his fears – therefore, I stay aloof as well. I can’t force anyone to realize something. He has to realize for himself!
So far, I have invested myself with 3 men in my twenties and to this day, I’m still single. So therefore, they weren’t or aren’t that into me so I need to take it easy. Not take it too seriously and keep focusing on my success. I know that the right man will come along and will not require such puzzling thought process.
For now, I am deeply involved with someone who lives thousands of miles away. I’ve known him for over a year and our relationship has progressively gotten stronger but yet we are not officially committed to each other. He seems to be afraid of many unknowns – afraid that long distance is not going to work or afraid that we are not going to last long if we lived together. In conclusion, he doesn’t like me enough to overcome his fears – therefore, I stay aloof as well. I can’t force anyone to realize something. He has to realize for himself!
A few people have asked if I have read the book "He's just not that into you" and I tell them that I refuse to read it. Why? Because I don't need a stranger to remind me of the things that I should already know - and yes I say that with an attitude!
yours truly,
I'ma A Diva from Seattle
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