Timing is Everything...

We've all heard the quote, "Timing is Everything." I've heard it from the movie "Hitch," I've heard it from a friend of a friend and from your mamma's mama. Needless to say, it's damn true. Time is the essence of our life. We're all WAITING for something. Which brings me to the point of this blog. I'm waiting for the big shift to happen in my life. Career. Love. Life. I feel like I'm stuck in this hallway full of doors on each side. Which door do I open? Which one do I choose?

Why was I laid off from my job, and what was the timing of that? Questions and questions overlapping each other. Timing. That's what it is timing. There's a plan for me. I just have to be patient right? I'm not losing hope. I'm optimistic. I want a job. I want to launch my career now!

Time...time...Time...it's a beautiful thing right?

The other day, I was talking to my trainer about this guy that I've been into for a while and he told me, "Maybe it's just not the right time, timing is everything." And I thought, "You know what? He's right...Right?" I began to tell him about this guy that I dated a year ago who was really sweet...a great guy, but I just wasn't interested in him on that 'same level.' We didn't connect on that level that I felt was enough to further our relationship. Then he asked me, "Do you think it would be different if you were dating him now? Maybe you weren't ready then, just how the person you are talking to now. It's all about timing, and now you're on the other side of the fence, cause you're ready and he's not." Wow. Was I getting a taste of my own medicine? That's a hard pill to swallow, but in a sense I saw his point of view and I inhaled every word, slowly and deeply.

Things will happen when the timing is right. The only thing for me is that if and when I want something bad enough... I tend to do anything to make it happen no matter what. BUT...what I need to realize in truth...is sometimes no matter how hard I try sometimes things aren't meant to be mine. Some things just aren't meant to happen...because it just isn't the right TIME.

In the end...TIMING is EVERYTHING...

-*PoCket FuLL oF SunShiNe* from Seattle-