I'm no different sometimes!

There I was sitting on his bachelor leather couch infront of a 50 something inches wide screen tv. He was making us some tea in the kitchen. I'm pretending to watch the television while deeply thinking about how to open up a conversation about how he hasn't called me for a week and suddenly wanted to hang out. I for sure did not want to sound nuts, but still wanted to get a convo about why that was. So he sat (not right next to me) - and I thought well I'm going to make my way into his bubble - so I did. Then the unexpected revelation came! He says "I have something to tell you" - so I thought: I've only known you for a little over a month, what could it possibly be? he continues, "you know how I have been M.I.A for almost 2 weeks? it's because I was boo'd up..."

WOW - faced with an unexpected couch confessional, I did not know how to react! Why tell me such thing? Why confess when clearly we both are in a stage where we can do whatever we want? Why be M.I.A and completely neglect me for days if you're not committed to anyone? - all sorts of questions running in my head and what I ended up saying was: "Oh I see, well thanks for letting me know" - whoooooowhat? I can't believe I handled it like that.

We, women always complain about liars and guys who can't just keep it real! I got myself an honest guy sitting next to me and I resented it! Yes I know it's complex BUT I guess honesty is preferred to an extent. What he said was an uncalled confession that we both could have gone without! I was mentally checked out after that... thinking 'If you don't know how to manage your time, then that's your bad and no brownie points for telling me how you were boo'd up without following up with something like "but that's all over now because she wasn't anything like you"-'Yes sometimes I'm no different! Sometimes I can be just like how many men would say: DIFFICULT!

- your's truly,

I'ma A Diva from Seattle